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Ingersoll
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The preface:
I'm drunk.
The background:
Guy A and Girl A start talking. Guy A bares his soul to Girl A, including the fact that he's been hurt 100+ times before, and that he thinks every little thing means something.
Instead of calling Guy A when Girl A was supposed to on her birthday, she evidently runs off and fucks some random dude.
Upon surmising this the next day and having it confirmed by Girl A, Guy A tells the bitch goodbye. Naturally, she got all defensive about it.
Anyway, never being a short-winded chap, and trying not to be so brutal of one as he used to be (normally, I'd destroy her mentality with a quick Psyche Bomb{TM}), I decided to try to write this particular whore a helpful message.
Given that I think that a majority of the people here are hippies, I wanted a little feedback on the following message I wrote to her:
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Hello,
Assuming my behavior-pattern analysis is correct, I'm sure you're pissed off at me right now. You think me a bastard who doesn't know where to draw the line between "his business" and "shit that isn't his business".
Well, sure, whatever. I'm not mad at you right now. This e-mail isn't designed to argue your logic regarding that concept, because (A) I'm too intoxicated to care and (B) I wouldn't care anymore anyway. This is an e-mail designed to give you a glimpse into the mind of a man who was serious about you, so that you can know the mind of men serious about you later . . . and hopefully, not abuse them.
I would ask that you read it . . . not because I asked you to, but merely because you may find it exquisitely helpful in the future.
(Yes, I'm intoxicated . . . it's the only cure for that "ice-water in the veins" feeling I get when I feel fucked over, betrayed, etc. And yes, I know, you don't think you betrayed me, or stabbed a knife in my chest . . . I understand that. In this decadent age, people don't acknowledge the meaning of what they do . . . and get pissed if someone else does.)
But anyway, the friendly advice, for a future I will not be taking part in:
You say you want romance . . . as you put it in our chats (which I re-read to see where I fucked up): "i'm not looking for just someone to "love" or JUST a serious relationship" "i'm actually looking for commitement....possibly marriage".
Well, act like it. Stop the random fucking, and start looking for a man who will be the man you want.
But hey, perhaps your perfect man won't mind you fucking someone else. But don't you see that the man who doesn't care about that will expect you not to care when he fucks someone else? And where is the line drawn . . . maybe he'll fuck someone else the night before you get married. Is that what you want?
Here's the secret that most people in this decadent age keep forgetting . . . everything means something.
"Talking", as we were, means something.
Holding hands, as I did to you, means something.
A kiss on the hand, as I gave you, means something.
A hug, as the one we shared, means something, too.
You talking to me, telling me that there was no one else you were talking to in a serious-relationship sense . . . that meant something. Expressly saying there were no other contenders . . . that meant something.
But perhaps I'm jumping ahead. After all, this is an age where people don't acknowledge meaning . . . what could it possibly mean to you that I felt these things?
So, let's look at it from a good ole consequences perspective. Oh, but that's jumping ahead, too.
THE BASICS:
1. Ethics: The right-and-wrong of things, in an objective sense. For instance, murdering a stranger in cold blood is wrong. Killing a man who is about to blow up the world is not.
2. Aesthetics: The "beauty" of something, in a subjective sense. For instance, killing is not beautiful. A wondrously noble act is.
There are people who follow basic ethics. They do things based on right and wrong. Aesthetics is a higher standard . . . not only is there the right-and-wrong of a thing, but there's whether or not that thing is beautiful.
Below both "aestheticists" and "ethicists" are those who operate based on the *consequences*. These are the people who ask "can I get away with this or not". They don't care if it's right or wrong, and they don't care if it's beautiful or not . . . they just worry about whether it will serve their interests (whatever they think those are), and whether they can get away with it or not.
Consequentialists suck. Those are the people you want to avoid. They'd cheat on you if they thought they could keep it a secret. They'll lie, cheat, steal, whatever.
So, when you're not sure if someone understands aesthetics (or even ethics), it can help to argue things from the good ole consequentialist perspective. For example, "don't steal from me or I'll fucking shoot you." This is not a right-or-wrong claim regarding the act of stealing, nor is it an argument regarding the aesthetics of stealing . . . it's a pure-consequences argument.
So let's examine the consequences of your actions:
By fucking someone else while talking to a guy, you have, by default, cheapened what you had with the guy. After all, how can you be trusted when the guy knows you'll run off and fuck someone else at the drop of a hat? And do you think that you're seriously acknowledging the guy's marriage potential by testing out another dick entirely?
In other words, everything we do has meaning, and everything we do affects the way we behave towards others. Cruelty toward a non-sapient animal (a cat like yours, for instance) is not ethically wrong, but imagine the effect on a person who tore a kitten apart. (That's why it's aesthetically un-beautiful . . . i.e. aesthetically wrong.) Such an act will affect the way we treat sapients (i.e. people).
As should be reasonably obvious, fucking Guy B while talking to Guy A is not exactly conducive to your relationship (or potential relationship, if you prefer) with Guy A.
But hey, maybe you're a cynic like me. You expect that the other person is almost bound to fuck you over at some point, and so you decide that nothing matters . . . it's okay to fuck them over, because they probably fucked you over already.
But before you start fucking someone over, shouldn't you be damn sure they fucked you over first? After all, shooting a fucking hardcore Nazi isn't ethically wrong, but shooting someone who is innocent is. Shouldn't you be sure that Guy A is a fucking hardcore Nazi first?
Duh. Yeah, you should. Otherwise, you just did something wrong.
And that example of shooting someone brings us to another point. Most people think, in this decadent age (a cliche term, I know, but accurate), that you only start hurting a person when you physically maim them. But that's not correct. The measure of a man is not just his physical body, but his mind as well. After all, a man with no mind is just a useless automaton. Breaking a man's mind . . . or, according to the Greek model, his heart . . . is just as rude and vulgar as cutting off his limb.
Ponder that further. You seem (in retrospect) to be interested in a man's money, so think of it in terms of a man's ability to produce wealth. A person can't build something without the thought behind it . . . wealth entails more than one's hands, it also requires his mind. By destroying a man's mind . . . in the form of faith in humanity, or his happiness . . . you slaughter his desire to create. Stealing a man's mind is as ignoble as stealing his bread.
But of course, honesty is based on acknowledging another person's mind. It's also based on acknowledging your own mind. After all, when you lie to someone, you're subjecting your mind . . . your perception of TRUTH . . . to theirs.
But of course, you weren't necessarily dishonest to me. You told me the truth, in a way, by refusing to say what you'd done.
But what if, in my oft-wounded untrusting-ness, I had not surmised that you'd run off and fucked that guy . . . what would you have done? Would you have told me? I think not.
You'd have subjected your Truth, your perceptions, to mine. That is a capital offense.
That is why I told you goodbye.
I knew, at the moment you replied to "was he cute ;-)" with a smile, the moment you started trying to defend your actions . . . I knew you weren't me. Despite the similarities of our histories, I knew you didn't understand what you'd done.
I need someone who understands . . . when I said I needed "me in a dress", I didn't just mean that I needed someone horny and romantic . . . I need someone trustworthy. Someone who understood what trust was, and what the giving of it meant.
We've both fucked over forty people. You added one more while talking to me.
Don't you see that you can't just go fuck someone and not expect consequences? As you've seen, the consequence of fucking someone was losing me.
I know this hasn't been easy to read, assuming you've even read it. Not only does it involve concepts which you're obviously unfamiliar with, but it might make you feel guilty, which isn't something whores do easily (especially when they're made to feel guilty by another person).
Perhaps you're even angry at my use of the term "whore" . . . but I have to ask you: why shouldn't I say that? Your behavior said I should.
I'd like to think this message might change your behavior. Hell, I'd like to think that you'll start thinking about what you do. You might even become the person I thought you were.
But I won't be there to see it. Like any rational man, I can never trust you again. After all, if you're willing to fuck around during the so-called "just talking" stage, what would really prevent you from bearing another man's child??? There's no difference.
"Hey, no ring, no foul" you think, in keeping with this decadent age. Bull-fucking-shit. The verbal vows of marriage are no different than the non-verbal vows of telling someone you want to be with them.
When you say that, you tell someone more than you'll ever know.
But now that I've said all this, let's return to the main point . . .
Was your action unethical? That's debatable. You told me things that suggested you wouldn't go fuck around, and my trust in you was based on that. But was it truly unethical? Maybe not.
But was it an act of ugliness? Absolutely.
As I use the term, a whore is someone who is willing to break any moral code to get fucked. A husband, boyfriend, or whatever? They don't matter. She's just interested in the fuck.
Let's face it . . . you weren't like me. You were just a whore. If you want to achieve true love and marriage from a man who is worth a shit, you'll stop being a whore. You'll show other people respect, instead of being so willing to fuck them over at the first opportunity.
The choice is yours.
Either way, you offended me. You will not get a second chance. I told you I was more than capable of walking out the door when I saw deceit . . . well, consider this your last view of my ass.
But, being more kind than I used to be, I hope you find this useful. I hope you use it to improve your behavior, and not as a tool to allow you to more easily manipulate honest men. If you do the former, I'll applaud you. If you do the latter, I'll fucking destroy your world. And I will be watching.
(That's consequentialism, FYI . . . I don't trust you (or any other woman for that matter, as you well know) to figure out non-whore-dom. Why the fuck should I? You were just another fucking disappointment in a string of 100+.)
Bye.
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[ 04-05-2003, 05:12 AM: Message edited by: Ingersoll ]
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Zach
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Very nice! I can relate to a lot of that in there. I had a similar break up and wrote a similar e-mail, although I paraphrased a lot.
One question though:
HOW DID YOU WRITE ALL THAT DRUNK!?
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That is more than just a "fuck you" letter. It is a survey course in morality, a pamphlet on Character ( see vintage "Character" post by UncleCrazyFace), a discourse on beautiful actions, and the ugliness of the Cheating Interior. I agree with 98% of what you wrote there - not that my opinion is being solicited - so let me comment on what I didn't agree with. Maybe this can be of some use to you in the future.
I find cheating to be abhorrent. Worse than that, it is the ultimate relationship cowardly act. I say this as a self described "expert" on cheating - having been on both sides of the fence at one point or another. However, I believe that most people tell us who they are within moments of meeting them. As I may have said before, it is up to you to ignore these signals and fill in the undesired gaps in character with projected desires of who you want someone to be. Remember - we can say we are whatever we want, especially in the beginning. Both men and women have an instinct to pick up on what another person wants - and then perhaps unconsciously "try on the cloak" to garner interest from another person. I gather that you had signals of the weakness of this girl from the jump. Next time, wait patiently for awhile after you've had your late night confessionals and see if the story sticks. Some may call this cynical, overprotective behavior - I think it's just a practical method to deal with others - especially when the most is on the line...our ego and our hearts. Most people are many many more layers then we want to imagine (as I am sure does not to be said) Just make sure they are who they are before creating expectations for someone who simply, does not deserve them.
This is all, as most things are, much more easier said than done. Particularly when we really want to connect to another person, and everyone we talk to becomes a candidate. I have found that the mark of a truly evolved creature is someone who has been hurt before as well, deeply. And they are observant of the lessons that were handed to them. That is a mark of wisdom, a most desirable character trait in anyone we could lend our fragile hearts to.
Also - although I imagine this letter was written in a state of inebriated deep bitterness, and I will give you the benefit of doubt for that, I take slight offense to the last full paragraph. (of course I would, I am a woman). Keep in mind (and please take this as gently as possible), you chose her. I am not saying that you are responsible for this obviously fucked up girl's whorish behaviors (and I agree with you - they were whorish, and she deserved to get this letter - perhaps you will be doing some bloke a huge favor...but most likely, it won't make a dent. She's an idiot) - but you had to have known. There is no way your instinct did not set off an alarm or two.
I have to make one more comment. I understand the catharticness (if that is a word) of writing this letter. I wish I had a copy of this letter to have sent to many many men I had dated in the past, all I had to do was change gender and circumstances - and it would have fit my purposes perfectly. However, as I have told many a scorned person in the past, the best revenge - the loudest voice - is silence. Just a complete and utter dropping off the face of this person's world. That is the hardest move to make, and thus, the most powerful. If you can manage that with disinterested disdain, even better. It is also the most dignity saving move for you - and your ego needs most protection during a situation like this.
Good luck, and I hope that this chick comes back groveling. She probably won't, though.
- elf
[ 04-05-2003, 02:01 PM: Message edited by: elf ]
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Wait a second. Before the girl is fully deemed 'whore', we must ask - was she actually going out with Ingersoll? The vibe I'm getting is that they were not, and if they were not going out, then there was no 'cheating' going on because they had not agreed upon a commited relationship to eachother. This could also be a case of Ingersoll being FAR more attracted (possibly to the level of insanity) to the girl than the girl was to him. I don't know the exact details so I can't really say... but the bitterness in that letter made it seem that that might have been the case. For all we know, they could have just been friends, and she slept with soemone and told him.
I'm curious.. Ing.. what was your level of commitment with this girl? You say you only held hands and hugged, and while this may have been an all encompasing romatic commitment - for her it may have just been friendly. Yes... this can kill a man... but I need more details.
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You are not your job, your titles, your possessions, your degrees, your lovers, your relationships, your place of residence, your social security number, your ID, your bills, your worries, your bank account, your age or your body. You are the timeless being that created & perceives itself through those things, and you have the power to play or not play that game. When someone asks me "what do you do?" looking for some title to pin me down, I laugh and say "EVERYTHING!" - Blackout
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i'de have to agree with blackout on this...
there is a fine line between want and have,
and a small peice of advice...learn to play the game, you may survive...be a whore your self for a while ![[Wink]](wink.gif)
i am not trying to make little of your hurt and anger,but as a man to a fellow man...you dont need a woman to make you "whole",be independant. and you will do your self well just to turn your back and learn from what has happened,
a wise man once said..you never find love ,love finds you...
or mabie it was some drunk dude in nyc i dont know...
fact of the matter is... learn there are 2 wimen for every man in the world...dont waist your time on what you cant have and concentraite on what you can....move on,,,the past is the only thing out of your controle,
never forget any love is better than none at all
hurt sucks.... i am sorry you hurt
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well, I have to say that I am touched that you shared your letter with us.
And as far as calling anyone any name, whore, whatever, the only people who really take offense at those names do so because deep down, at least on some level, they know it's true. A lot of women take offense at being called a whore because they are. But haven't we all been whores at some point? (He who is without sin...) So for that reason calling names and grouping all females in the same category is wrong. As wrong as calling all men whores. But people say lots of things when they hurt. It's good to get it out of your system, otherwise it festers and crawls out when you least expect and affects all of your relationships with women.
As far as sending the letter, I suggest you don't. She doesn't deserve to know that she hurt you. She isn't worth your pain.
I believe in giving up. I know that sounds bad, but it is very liberating. I didn't find my soulmate until I had come to the conclusion that I didn't have one, or it might take forever to find her. Because life isn't fair. And then I found her in a month or so. Like it was meant to be. Because it was.
Weird, huh?
A lot of strange things have happened to me, and continue to happen to me, constantly. Things I can't explain. It has made me believe in things beyond what you see or hear or touch. What we feel is real. I'm not sure about anything else.
The pain is necessary. Otherwise, when you find her, you wouldn't know to cherish her, not knowing how special she is.
But I'm just a flake on some community board, so what the hell do I know?
Did you really write that drunk? I thought I was the only one who sounds better drunk.
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Now, Ing, is this a recent one or one from the past. Honestly, there's been quite a few, and they all seem to meld together into the following action:
Guy meets girl.
Guy likes girl.
Girl likes guy.
BUT,
Girl goes off and sleeps with any random person she finds.
Guy gets drunk.
Keep your chin up, Ing. And let's not have a repeat of Whiskey October or whatever month that happened on.
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Ahhh good ole Whisktober!
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You are not your job, your titles, your possessions, your degrees, your lovers, your relationships, your place of residence, your social security number, your ID, your bills, your worries, your bank account, your age or your body. You are the timeless being that created & perceives itself through those things, and you have the power to play or not play that game. When someone asks me "what do you do?" looking for some title to pin me down, I laugh and say "EVERYTHING!" - Blackout
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I believe the correct terms are Scotchtober and Whiskvember, gentlemen. ![[Roll Eyes]](rolleyes.gif)
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Let's not forget Vodkust.
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Maestra is indeed a sexy geek.
"Primitive humans make tools; computer-designed, high-tech hand tools." -program description from The History Channel's Modern Marvels
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Eek, forgot I'd put that here.
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Originally posted by Zach:
HOW DID YOU WRITE ALL THAT DRUNK!?
I don't know. I think I was channeling Poe or something. ![[Smoke]](graemlins/smoke.gif)
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Dude -
Not ONLY is she a whore, shes a dirty FUCKING whore.
You were right to compose the letter. I for one hope you sent it.
I also will loan to you some of my favorite snti-female 'curses'...
"I hope she gets explosive ghonorreah"
"I hope her uterus falls out"
"I hope some guy fucks her in the ass, steals her wallet and then sneaks out the window" (Yes, that one was on loan to me from Sam Kinison)
This girl is a prime example of how women suck. 99.9% of women are cheaters (statistically, women cheat in marraige MUCH more than men do) and women show no remorse.
Furthermore, most women lie. They dont care about a man's feelings. Because of course, men have no feelings. We're seen as hamsters to women, to be played with until we die, then they spend $3.00 on a new one and give it the same name with a '2' attached to the end.
You want to find a good woman? It's hard to do. I know I have been looking for ages. The very first question you have to ask her is "Have you ever cheated on a boyfriend" - if they say yes, then say goodbye.Once a cheat, always a cheat. Its the lowest moral crime a person can commit. Believe me, shell do it to you.
Now, if you find a girl who says she never has, well, youre taking a risk. Because she probably has and is just lying to you.
If she says she hasnt, and you believe her, then you may be in luck. Better yet, if she has BEEN cheated ON, youre in a better place. She knows how it hurts, and will (Probably) never do it to you.
Keep on keeping on, my brother. You may just find her eventually.
In the meantime, send your letter to this whore. And if you do chop her head off, I wont mind at all helping you dispose of her body. I know a great spot in the everglades...
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Dude......not all girls suck. ![[Big Grin]](biggrin.gif)
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You're right - many refuse to perform even that simple act. Those girls are even worse.
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C'est ne pas juste. ![[Insomnia]](graemlins/insomnia.gif)
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Rob, you're an idiot.
99.9% of women cheat? I think your statistics are WAY off.
Secondly, most women lie? And don't care about mens feelings? Are you fucking insane? I have about a million rebuttles to THAT one.
No wonder your single. Your low opinion of women completely disgusts me.
I could really go on a rant about this but I guess I'd better take my lying/cheating ass on out of here since my opinion will fall on completely deaf ears.
And don't begin to say "well not YOU Doni" - because if 99.9 percent of women cheat and lie, then the odds are that I fall into that category, no?
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i just want to add that while not all wimen or men cheat...it is my personal thaughts that wimen do cheat more than men... i have had a lot of female freinds that felt the need to discus there personal life with me and all i can say is the scale is definately more wimen cheat than men
at least in my private corner of the world...
there is also 3 kinds of cheating...
1- the i am unhappy sticking it out hopping it will get better,but fullfilling my needs cheating
2- the the he/she is just a real fuck head and doesnt give a shit about any one other than themselves cheating
3-and the i am in a relationship that was ok but have a shot at one that is "real" cheating...
my personal take on cheating is... if i feel the need to cheat, i end things before i do...its cowardly on the cheaters part and hurts the other...unless you like deliberatly hurting people
then i geuess its ok (sarcasme)
ok i have to go back to being happy now ![[Cry]](graemlins/cryface.gif)
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I would assume, Doni, that you fall into the .01 category, because You seem to be of high morals.
Keep in mind, I was making an EXAGGERATION on the '99.9%', but even if that number is correct, it would leave a large number of women who dont cheat.
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Oh NO! Doni, you're not actually listening to what Rob has to say about women again are you? Don't we all know not to ever listen to Rob on that subject at this point? Sitcom breakdowns and Newsies theories? Sure... but girls? No. Rob will never understand the female except in teh worst, bitter, I will get them all back some day sort of way.
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Ah yes, the great judge of morality shows his hat. Of course, in this board, everyone is entitled to an opinion except me, because my opinions are wrong.
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of the roughly 130 million women in this country, .01 percent would amount to an astonishing One million, three hundred thousand.
Thats a big enough Margin for you to fit into Doni.
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Pharris, your opinion isn't wrong, it just sounds like the ravings of a person with a very, very dark and ugly and bitter heart, and I for one, am tired of hearing it.
Dude, get yourself into some therapy!
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pharris
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Therapy I dont need.. i dont have any Pathologies. For you to even SUGGEST that is offensive, but Oh, if I should blame that on you being a woman...
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Rob....what is wrong with you, dude?
I finally figured it out. Its THE CYST! The Cyst is taking you over, little by little. You are becoming infected with heat and pain. You need to grab your insurance card and run to nearest hospital. I don't believe it is contagious, but you never know. THE CYST IS TO BLAME. Does it taunt you at night...."Listen to the Cyst, Women are Evil!!"?
poor poor Pharris. I'm sorry, hon
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Blackout
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Ah yes, the great judge of morality shows his hat. Of course, in this board, everyone is entitled to an opinion except me, because my opinions are wrong.
Ummmm, yeah. I think you summed it up just about right.
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i was just woundering ...did any one else notice pharris seams angry =]
i used to be quite like the angry younge man...till i learened not to settle for what i got and learned not to fall in love with the idea of falling in love...
often times love is a one way street... those times are the times best kept to your self....when you love or think you could love some one...
the real 100 proof make you wanna puke stuff comes from 2 people having the same passion for each other...
you can not be angry at the fact that some one does not love you as much as you love them...
all you can do is move on and hope pray that some day you will find the sappy ass fairy tail shit we where all told and made to belive ...some people never find it, some settle for somthing they they think is it... some,...and this is the important part folks...
some look a hell of a lot harder than others...
as i said i used to have the same angry at wimen feeling... then i got older and realised you cant make love happen it has to happen on its own...
shure it hurts to be lied to, but the best thing you can do is to just keep on going on being the best most honest person you can...some day you may find some one that appreaciats the honesty in your motives...
i need a beer...and a broken heart so i can get over my song writing slump of 3 years... good night, sleep well and have enuff self respect for your self to enable you to not be hurt so easily
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Shostie
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Of course, in this board, everyone is entitled to an opinion except me, because my opinions are wrong.
Well. It's not that your opinions are wrong, Pharris. It's just that they make you come off as really, REALLY stupid.
Now I'm not saying you are. You seem like a reasonably intelligent guy. But whenever the topic of girls comes up it evokes something a bit dark inside you.
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Blackout
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Therapy I dont need.. i dont have any Pathologies...
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Oh I don't know about that my friend. I would say you have plenty of pathologies. Hence all your ridiculous anger. You need to get Jack Nicholson to come and sleep with you.
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If you'll pardon this ultimate act of thread necromancy (over three years!), I'd just like to say thank you to Blackout for not wiping out old posts. I thought the letter above long-gone, but was recently prompted to look for it again after a much deeper and more devastating event with a remarkably similar individual . . . my first relationship with a bodycount.
(Some things don't change, Shostie, and some things do . . . too bad you weren't around for Vodka May 2006!)
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Anothe ressuected post!
Egads!
(eagds is such a... well.. silly? No.. gay? no..? weird? No....
Just a .. well a.. what a goofy word.
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"Egads" sounds like the noise an out-of-tune foghorn would make
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I was thinking the sound a British person makes when they choke on an egg salad sandwich.
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There is alot of good stories going on here.
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Rob, you're an idiot.
99.9% of women cheat? I think your statistics are WAY off.
Secondly, most women lie? And don't care about mens feelings? Are you fucking insane? I have about a million rebuttles to THAT one.
No wonder your single. Your low opinion of women completely disgusts me.
I could really go on a rant about this but I guess I'd better take my lying/cheating ass on out of here since my opinion will fall on completely deaf ears.
And don't begin to say "well not YOU Doni" - because if 99.9 percent of women cheat and lie, then the odds are that I fall into that category, no?
Ummm.... Didn't Doni wind up cheating on her boyfriend (Ironically named 'the cheat') and run off with one of Blackout's roommates a while after this thread was made?
...Guess Pharris was right all along!
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